Daytime dates are risky. Besides the sex-killing sobriety, a girl can learn a lot more about you when the sun is up and you’re outside strolling around for hours revealing more of yourself than you would be inclined to at night in a dimly-lit lounge with music to distract her.
An actual Bhutanese man so secure [...]
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What do you do if you’re being used… and you know it?
An awkward scenario in which to find yourself embroiled is to be dating a girl you like, who also likes you and has made that known, but who is deep into a multi-year relationship with another guy that she has told you about, and [...]
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Posted in Dating, Escape on June 3, 2008 | 25 Comments »
The perfect first or second date venue in DC may very well be this place. Why? Besides the cheap beer, lounge-y atmosphere, cool vibe, local feel, hip jukebox selection, pool, darts, hand shuffleboard, and foosball… it now has Wii. In particular, Wii bowling and Wii boxing.
There is a lot of unspoken tension on the first two [...]
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I went to a speed dating event here in DC with my date and one of her girlfriends. The idea was that we would have some over-the-top fun with it while practicing our flirting skills on a maximum number of targets in a minimum amount of time in order to keep our game sharp. (Lord [...]
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The circus is a great daytime event to take a girl for a third date. It’s thooper dooper gay, because the performers are very happy and always smiling. The spectators are smiling, the clowns are smiling, everyone is gay and joyous. So fabulously gay! The happy smiling gayness puts your date in a positive upbeat mood, even if the [...]
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One thing that comes with dating a lot of women is an improved ability to detect when her level of enthusiasm isn’t matching yours, and when to cut off investment when the profit outlook is poor. Inexperience and lack of diversification causes a lot of men to hold onto a girl’s stock far longer than is wise, [...]
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Posted in Dating on April 2, 2008 | 69 Comments »
There are two different dating strategies to follow depending on your relationship goals.
Short term fling
Don’t bother putting much imaginative effort into your dates. When you are doubtful of the girl you are dating as relationship material you’re better off minimizing your courtship investment. A “girl you date” as opposed to a “girl you see” won’t need [...]
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It’s a good idea to bring sex talk into the conversation with a girl sooner rather than later. Prying her brain wave patterns with thoughts of sexual scenarios while her attention is directed to you will anchor those pleasurable feelings to your presence. She will perceive you as a sexual man with a masculine crotch-centered aura.
Timing is important. If [...]
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*REMINDER*
Tonight is the happy hour at Marvin. Your true Lord and Savior will be upstairs with these guys around 9pm. Lap room only.
Back to your regularly scheduled post.
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I met a pretty blonde girl for a first date at one of my favorite lounges (that is to say, the lounge met the requirement of being conveniently located within walking distance of my place). [...]
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Some of my commenters mentioned that it should be easier for older guys to date younger girls because of the inherent attraction women have for worldly, mature men. This assumption is true in the abstract, but needs to be amended.
Roissy Maxim #7: The greater the age difference between the older man and the younger woman, [...]
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